Collaborative Dreaming (podcast $)
Lincoln Stoller2025-01-12T20:10:06-08:00Dreams go right to emotion. Tey can take you to levels of feeling you’ll never reach by talking.
Are Good and Bad Trauma Related (podcast)
Lincoln Stoller2025-01-09T08:58:07-08:00What you need should be a regular part of your life, not an ecstatic or occasional experience.
Nine Laws for Fulfilling Relationships (podcast $)
Lincoln Stoller2024-12-22T16:02:46-08:00Comparing Stefan Deutsch’s 9 “laws” with what I consider essential: awareness, thought, sex, neurology, commitment, discernment, effort, support, and spirit.
Empathy Versus Synchrony (podcast $)
Lincoln Stoller2024-11-10T16:59:37-08:00We say that empathy creates change, but it’s really synchrony that does it.
The Depths of Self-Awareness ($)
Lincoln Stoller2024-10-02T01:02:10-07:00All of your problems reflect absent self-awareness, just as your successes are the result of it.
Seeing the Other (podcast $)
Lincoln Stoller2024-10-02T01:01:32-07:00The most important things we need to learn are the things we cannot see. How do we learn about such things? I suspect the first thing you must do is to grow larger in order to see more.
The Three Parts in a Co-Creative Relationship
Lincoln Stoller2024-10-02T01:00:25-07:00A co-creative relationship must have three elements: congruence, unity, and purpose. I have three counseling relationships that demonstrate this dynamic at three different levels...
Is Dishonesty a Lack of Courage? ($)
Lincoln Stoller2024-10-02T00:59:08-07:00The courageous person is not the one who advances through victory, it’s the person who benefits despite failure.
The Four Essential Aspects of Every Relationship ($)
Lincoln Stoller2024-10-02T00:58:21-07:00Everything we manifest, both as individuals and in relationships, has its origins in our subconscious.
The Purpose of Dreams and Dreams of Partnership (podcast)
Lincoln Stoller2024-10-02T00:58:09-07:00Dreams are an opportunity to understand yourself, if you take them seriously.
How to Make a Commitment ($)
Lincoln Stoller2024-10-01T23:13:11-07:00A commitment is not a thing. It's the process of awareness, feedback, insight, action, and responsibility. You can only commit to being a positive force
Real and Unreal Victories ($)
Lincoln Stoller2023-12-28T17:41:40-08:00You’d think relationships would be taken seriously, but most people approach relationships like a card game.