Empathy III
Lincoln Stoller2021-04-21T18:22:09-07:00Understand that empathy and sympathy are practically opposites and move in different directions. This is the key to learning how to be and use empathy.
Sex and Emotion
Lincoln Stoller2021-04-15T02:22:22-07:00Do we really communicate in the realms of the non-conscious? Is chemical bonding a form of stupidity?
Empathy I
Lincoln Stoller2021-04-25T15:21:06-07:00Can you have too much empathy? Would I like to be more or less empathetic?
How Do You Feel?
Lincoln Stoller2021-03-11T15:27:44-08:00You feel by exploring the depth of your emotional repertoire, and you can expand your emotional repertoire. You have not reached life’s contentment because you do not yet know how to create it.
Blue Ocean Emotions – 3
Lincoln Stoller2020-02-02T11:53:06-08:00As the foundation of your ability to see holistically, emotions are an essential ingredient of any viable notion of intelligence, not a separate notion of intelligence.
Dispossession
Lincoln Stoller2020-05-01T20:03:25-07:00You might think it silly to ask, “Who is at home?” with regard to anyone’s personality, but I disagree. When someone asks something of you, where does your answer come from?
Blue Ocean Emotions – 2
Lincoln Stoller2020-01-29T10:47:27-08:00Emotional Intelligence requires feeling, not intellect. It’s the manipulation of emotion that’s done using awareness.
Blue Ocean Shoals
Lincoln Stoller2019-12-10T16:40:39-08:00The different skills of non-reductive, systems thinking are aspects of a single approach that’s integrated into the single term “resonance.”
The Assembly of Mind
Lincoln Stoller2019-10-27T23:34:30-07:00Your mind is a collective but you don’t see it as a collective. You can’t see the parts because the parts are doing the seeing. We are fascinated to look at ourselves because it helps us imagine what we are.
Thinking, Time, and Identity
Lincoln Stoller2020-12-19T22:06:34-08:00Many things come naturally to us, but thinking is not one of them. There are many forms of thinking. We are primarily taught only two: linear and emotional.
An Unusual Awareness
Lincoln Stoller2019-09-25T13:37:16-07:00I’m feeling the panic, I have a situation, I have a resolution, but I don’t have a conclusion, and I’ve run out of time. Here is what I do in my hypnopompic state: I begin by sitting with it and then I go beyond that.
Into The Road
Lincoln Stoller2020-12-17T01:35:16-08:00“You step into the Road, and if you don't keep your feet, there is no knowing where you might be swept off to.”— Bilbo Baggins, from The Lord of the Rings