Seeing the Other (podcast $)
The most important things we need to learn are the things we cannot see. How do we learn about such things? I suspect the first thing you must do is to grow larger in order to see more.
The Three Parts in a Co-Creative Relationship
A co-creative relationship must have three elements: congruence, unity, and purpose. I have three counseling relationships that demonstrate this dynamic at three different levels...
Is Dishonesty a Lack of Courage? ($)
The courageous person is not the one who advances through victory, it’s the person who benefits despite failure.
The Four Essential Aspects of Every Relationship ($)
Everything we manifest, both as individuals and in relationships, has its origins in our subconscious.
The Purpose of Dreams and Dreams of Partnership (podcast)
Dreams are an opportunity to understand yourself, if you take them seriously.
How to Make a Commitment ($)
A commitment is not a thing. It's the process of awareness, feedback, insight, action, and responsibility. You can only commit to being a positive force
Real and Unreal Victories ($)
You’d think relationships would be taken seriously, but most people approach relationships like a card game.
Male Friendships
Don’t get habituated on risk-taking. Grace is the object, not achievement.
Dead, Alive, and In Between ($)
Some of us are motivated, some are not, and some are conflicted and don’t know what to do.
Emotion
Emotions are signs, not things. Don’t be them, read them.
When to Leave Your Therapist ($)
The relationship you need is not understanding or supportive, it's the one that breaks the mold.
Personal Conflict Resolution Therapy ($)
Conflicts are symptoms, and their resolution rests on the recognition and rebalancing of a larger psychic structure.